How to write an obituary: a simple structure

Start with the facts

Most obituaries begin with the person's full name, age, where they lived, and the date they died. You don't have to include a cause of death — many families choose not to.

Tell a little of their story

• Where they grew up and what shaped them
• Work, service, or passions they were known for
• The people and places they loved
• A detail that makes people smile in recognition

Family and service details

Many obituaries list close family members and those who died before them, followed by service times and places, and any preference for flowers or donations.

For privacy and safety, consider leaving out home addresses and exact birth dates in anything shared publicly.

Review together

Ask one or two family members to read the draft for accuracy — especially names and spellings — before it's shared or printed.